There is a very important aspect of a woman’s life that all prospective men should understand. You sense of humour is so essential. Most women hate dull moments so they try as much as possible to avoid dating boring guys. Many of these women believe that most boring guys are either arrogant or self-centered. So your ability to put up an unbelievably wonderful array of funny stories is a powerful tool towards a successful dating.
The first thing to note is to avoid self- depreciating humour. Tell only moderately cocky stories that do not necessarily portray you as an arrogant or rude person. Not that you will start telling her stories of a friend of yours that was downgraded by a girl or how some other guys were humiliated by ladies at one time or the other. These are self-depreciating and highly humiliating, so avoid them. Be modest but not necessarily boastful.
Don’t just stop at one story. As long as you realise that she is not fed up or getting pissed off with your funny tales, tell another after another and then another…Cook up stories if you can, but get them carefully planned in your head before you spit them out. You can as well tell cool funny stories from real life. Be precise, smart, confident and down to earth.
Try to be different. Don’t just crack the same old cock and bull jokes or else you’ll piss your woman off in no time. So be as smart as you can and frame yourself to be the most intelligent guy in the world to her. The truth is that almost all women like their guys to stand out and be very intelligent. With that, they feel so safe and secured.
In the process of telling your sophisticated stories, ask her questions to learn more about her interests likes and dislikes. That way you will know her and you will follow her interest as much as you can, pick interest in her likes and avoid her dislikes (at least to get her!) avoidably. Tease her if need be but always remember that a woman and a magnet are similar except that a magnet has a positive side!
Women like sex as much as any man does. Many people fail to realise this and utilise it as a tool to win your love. Tell her funny love stories; tell her funny sex stories too. That will make her laugh away her worries. A friend of mine once asked a girl on a date that: “when do we normally ask the following questions: Is it tight? Is it painful? Do you like it?” She was laughing with tears before she answered that those questions can only be asked during love making but my friend insisted that the questions were asked sometimes ago, when buying a shoe!
On a final note, be at alert and don’t overdo anything. The moment she starts to like your jokes, you are almost there! You will see it in her gaze, her smiles the type of questions she asks you etc Then I say:
Congratulations!
You can now start flirting!!
Cheers and good luck!!!
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